Thursday, March 14, 2013

WEALTH, SUCCESS AND LOVE


Kekayaan, Kesuksesan dan Kasih Sayang

Suatu ketika, ada seorang wanita yang kembali pulang ke rumah, dan ia melihat ada 3 orang pria berjanggut yang duduk di halaman depan. Wanita itu tidak mengenal mereka semua.

Wanita itu berkata: "Aku tidak mengenal Anda, tapi aku yakin Anda semua pasti sedang lapar. Mari masuk ke dalam, aku pasti punya sesuatu untuk mengganjal perut".
Pria berjanggut itu lalu balik bertanya, "Apakah suamimu sudah pulang?"
Wanita itu menjawab, "Belum, dia sedang keluar".
"Oh kalau begitu, kami tak ingin masuk. Kami akan menunggu sampai suami mu kembali", kata pria itu.

Di waktu senja, saat keluarga itu berkumpul, sang isteri menceritakan semua kejadian tadi. Sang suami, awalnya bingung dengan kejadian ini, lalu ia berkata pada istrinya, "Sampaikan pada mereka, aku telah kembali, dan mereka semua boleh masuk untuk menikmati makan malam ini". Wanita itu kemudian keluar dan mengundang mereka untuk masuk ke dalam.

"Maaf, kami semua tak bisa masuk bersama-sama", kata pria itu hampir bersamaan.
"Lho, kenapa? tanya wanita itu karena merasa heran.
Salah seseorang pria itu berkata, "Nama dia Kekayaan," katanya sambil menunjuk seorang pria berjanggut di sebelahnya, dan "sedangkan yang ini bernama Kesuksesan, sambil memegang bahu pria berjanggut lainnya. Sedangkan aku sendiri bernama Kasih-sayang. Sekarang, coba tanya kepada suamimu, siapa diantara kami yang boleh masuk ke rumahmu."

Wanita itu kembali masuk kedalam, dan memberitahu pesan pria di luar. Suaminya pun merasa heran. "Ohho...menyenangkan sekali. Baiklah, kalau begitu, coba kamu ajak si KEKAYAAN masuk ke dalam. Aku ingin rumah ini penuh dengan Kekayaan."
Istrinya tak setuju dengan pilihan itu. Ia bertanya, "Sayangku, kenapa kita tak mengundang si KESUKSESAN saja? Sebab sepertinya kita perlu dia untuk membantu keberhasilan panen ladang pertanian kita."

Ternyata, anak mereka mendengarkan percakapan itu. Ia pun ikut mengusulkan siapa yang akan masuk ke dalam rumah. "Bukankah lebih baik jika kita mengajak si KASIH-SAYANG yang masuk ke dalam? Rumah kita ini akan nyaman dan penuh dengan kehangatan Kasih-sayang."

Suami-istri itu setuju dengan pilihan buah hati mereka. "Baiklah, ajak masuk si KASIH-SAYANG ini ke dalam. Dan malam ini, si KASIH-SAYANG menjadi teman santap malam kita."

Wanita itu kembali ke luar, dan bertanya kepada 3 pria itu. "Siapa diantara Anda yang bernama Kasih-sayang? Ayo, silahkan masuk, Anda menjadi tamu kita malam ini."
Si KASIH-SAYANG bangkit, dan berjalan menuju beranda rumah. Ohho..ternyata, kedua pria berjanggut lainnya pun ikut serta.
Karena merasa ganjil, wanita itu bertanya kepada si KEKAYAAN dan si KESUKSESAN. "Aku hanya mengundang si KASIH-SAYANG yang masuk ke dalam, tapi kenapa kamu berdua ikut juga?"

Kedua pria yang ditanya itu menjawab bersamaan. "Kalau Anda mengundang si KEKAYAAN, atau si KESUKSESAN, maka yang lainnya akan tinggal di luar. Namun, karena Anda mengundang si KASIH-SAYANG, maka, kemana pun Kasih-sayang pergi, kami akan ikut selalu bersamanya. Dimana ada Kasih-sayang, maka kekayaan dan Kesuksesan juga akan ikut serta.
Sebab, ketahuilah, sebenarnya kami berdua ini buta. Dan hanya si KASIH-SAYANG yang bisa melihat. Hanya dia yang bisa menunjukkan kita pada jalan kebaikan, kepada jalan yang lurus. Maka, kami butuh bimbingannya saat berjalan. Saat kami menjalani hidup ini."


1Corinthians 13:13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is Love.
CHOOSE LOVE!

REMEMBER ME...

Time is ticking; clock keeps moving and people growing.

But certain things remain the same.

Remember me; remember how I used to be and how I will be.


Name: HENY

Fav Color: YELLOW

Fav Season: SPRING

Fav Parents: JONNY & MERRY

Fav City: PARIS & LONDON

Fav Cartoon: the crazy monster STITCH

Fav Flower: YELLOW TULLIPS

Fav Snack: EMPEK EMPEK

Fav Subject in School: HISTORY

Fav Butter: salted ANCHOR

Fav Pastor: KEVIN LOO

Fav Footwear: WEDGE

Fav Musical:  Phantom of the Opera

Fav Eye Make Up Remover: Bi Facil lancome

Fav Face Cream: Creme de lamer

Fav Mascara: Hypnose Lancome

Fav Words: Kick you to the moon

Fav Artist: Vincent van Gogh

Fav Laptop: MacBook Pro

Fav Body Lotion: CETAPHIL

Fav Fragrance: JO MALONE nectarine and honey blossom

Fav Bday Gift of all times: 2004 Tifanny&Co Bracelet

Fav Person: KRISTY KOH

Fav Short break: BANGKOK

Fav Spa Fragrance: LEMONGRASS

Fav Juice: GUAVA

Fav Fruits: SEEDLESS red/green grapes

Fav Beer: CORONA

Fav Toys: BARBIE

Fav Lipstick Color: MAC CREMECUP

Fav Time of my life: UNI life in KL

Fav Phone: Stupid Blackberry; disappointing in every way but I love you full =D

Fav Verse: Psalms 23

Fav jeans: True Religion

Fav Sleeping style: top to toe covered with blanket (breathless but soundless zzz)

Fav BF and Husband: SANDY YUANDA



I'll see if I would be a change person 10 yrs later.

But as for the longest time; those things remain unchanged.

Signed and Sealed,

HENY MARCH 2013


Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Its so good to be me!

Say enough to all the dramas~

I am gonna come back stronger as ever.
Smiley and courageous as ever and hope to be more in all the good things.

Time to say big AU REVOIR and BYE BYE to the strong cold wind of winter.
Imma be STRONGER, BIGGER and POWERFUL welcoming spring.

I can't wait for the first day of all those flower blooms beautifully, leaves are greener and the trees looks bigger.

I am gonna start my healthy diet regime and exercise to live life to the fullest.
Ooww...and of coz no more of the sleepless nights again.
I wish to sleep beautifully and bountifully just like the sleeping beauty but I dont need a prince to wake me up.

NEW SEASON...NEW SPIRIT AND WATch me do it!!! >.<




Friday, March 1, 2013

Can't Sleep :(

Its one of those sleepless nights again.
I just got back from new york and you know the jetlag always win over me.
I am left sleepless again!
Day becomes night; night becomes day. What a life, really!!!

I have counted so many stars and all the chicken in the cage but yet the ooziness of deep sleep still remains a mystery.
I just can't sleep.
I started praying to God and asked Him if He knows what my dad is doing up there?
I really miss him so much.
I miss those places we went together, I talk to myself if I were to go those places again, would I be able to see dad?
Would I be able to talk with him again?
Would I be able to hold his hands and tap his shoulder again.
This loneliness has left me down for so many months.
It's really not easy to know the fact that he has gone and never will come back ever again.

Daddy... If you could hear me, please live a happy life up there.
I do miss our conversations, I miss the way you love us, I miss your good and kind heart but I know you are better off up there.
I really want to talk to you even only in a dream...
Please come and visit me when you get a chance, let me know that you are busy riding horses, picking up stars from the sky, gardening your beautiful flowers and enjoying your big palace with the sound of waterfall at the park outside.

And when you come to tell me those stories...I'll sleep beautifully and ready to conquer another great day.

Welcoming MARCH; the month where dreams come true.


Sunday, February 24, 2013

Oopsiee....Chinese New Year has gone.
Today is supossedly to be the last day of CNY.
Well well well.... SO much has been happening.
But the highlight of all is I gain 2kilos during this festive season.
Its time to shed the pounds off -.-"

But again considering of all the nice food I have enjoyed; there ought to be some sacrifices.
Its time to run again, do hardcore crunches again and continue my insanity workout.
I've made new friends during this time that I went back to my hometown and to hubby's home town.
Catch up with old friends is a must and spend time with family is most important of all.

I was amazed of the facts that all my siblings are "big."
We are blessed with good genetic and healthy bones.
My 190cm brother kept training his muscles that he looks like one of those celebrities now; well bult and tall.
My youngest sis is catching up about 163 cm now; a good achievement for a 13 years old teenager.
And my 14 years old sis keep expanding upwards to 173cm now.
We were walking to the morning market to accompany mom; she met some friends and acquintance there.
They were amazed to see us all. All pretty and good looking, tall and friendly in nature.
I am not boasting but at least those definition applies for my siblings if you were to exclude me. haha!!!

I spent a good 5 days in my hometown.
I didn't even bother to go out somewhere but just to be with my mom, spent time and talked non stop about life and people, about dreams and future.
How I love her so...
Its the best thing in life when you are blessed with such a lovely, understanding, passionate mom.
I couldn't ask for more.

The valentine's day has gone too.
I received a gift from a sweet friend of mine, lin who just got married.
She gave me those fairytale music box... and I love it!!!!!
I wish her everlasting happiness, hope she could be happy forever with hage and if he ever make her cry, I am so gonna punch him.haha! Girl power rocks!

Its back to work; back to reality.
And the major changes that happened recently was my hair style.
aha!!!
I am back to the original, chic, stylist, and unpretentious me.
I have cut my hair short!!!


My hair looks healthy and shining black.
Thats my original hair color anyway.
I just wanna come back to original me at the time being.
And yeah! those nicki minaj lip color is still mine too =D

Last day of New Year is the beginning of a great adventure!!!

cao....

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

W.E.A.K

Life is designed to be a rollercoaster.
There are times when you are up in the air, there are times that you go down to the floor.
LIFE as we know it; c'est la vie isn't always a bed of roses.

I am here at one of the lowest point of my life; after the biggest hit of losing my dad in October.
I got hit badly by another shocking news just 3 months after that.
Somebody please wake me up from this nightmare...
I am just a girl, a weak creature who could cry and feel the pain at times.

Why things happen to shake my world again?
I cried and my tears seem to be making a successful attempt to this thing called migraine.
I lost my appetite and I feel hopeless.
Please give me a break... I am just trying to live a life here.

Please speak to me God as only You can.
Strengthen me like how You always do.
Your mercy and Your grace are more than enough for me.

If you are going through hell, keep going.
-Winston Churchill

"Heaven and earth will pass away, but my Words will by no means pass away."
-Matthew 24:35

Monday, January 21, 2013

Let it Snow

Yellow!

Lets talk about the weather now.
I don't know what has gone wrong but Singapore is pretty cold at this time.
Its raining everyday with the temperature of 24 to 28 degree celcius.
I really thought the end is the world is coming nearer when I knew that was 24 degree celc in Singapore.
This small lil country has always been hot and its getting cooler now =D

Its snowing everywhere across the Europe and the UK.
I am in Milano at this time and it snows in the morning and afternoon; I was in Paris the last week and the heavy snow chased me out from the shopping street and my taxi driver rescued me and put me back to the hotel.
Can someone please tell me whats going on now???
London is snowing and tell me about Frankfurt and Munich, everything is covered with white now.
I remember I was in Frankfurt the last week; I was sleeping and I let the window curtain opened.
I was expecting some sun by the time I got up but it never came.
I got up about 2pm and I looked out and to my surprise the snow came like a cotton candy machine from the 30th floor Marriott, Frankfurt.
Olalaaa..... I was smilling and upset at the same time coz I suddenly lost the mood to step out of the hotel room.

Jakarta is flooding at this time of the year.
The heavy rain pouring down like nobody's business and caused the whole town in a mess.
I feel sorry for the Jakartans.
I pray that the mercy and grace of God will be with them and let nobody get injured or die due to the natural disaster.

Well then let it snow...
Its better than heavy pouring rain anyway ^^

A great 2013 is coming on your way, folks!!!